1. Accept the fact
Commonly each person
passes through severe setbacks or failures in his life. You need to come out from these unavoidable circumstances. The foremost
thing is to have self-realization that whatever has happened in the past and can't
be changed.
The only way is to control your emotions
and think wisely and accept the fact. Moreover, the realization of the truth is crucial at such moments otherwise you take
unwanted steps that are not at all expected. The acceptance of the failures or
setbacks can either make you even stronger or make you very feeble.
Accordingly, here I would like to focus on a few
points that can help you handle such delicate situations boldly.
2. Divert yourself by pursuing your hobby
The most important thing in such situations is to divert yourself and try to be away from your cell phone to avoid the calls for some days. It is necessary to take some time to realize the truths. It is very common for people to call you for asking about your well-being, ask you repetitive questions, and try to support you. But you know from within the situation you are going through and can't explain everyone about your thoughts. You understand people asking you questions just to give you confidence, but at the same time, you don't want to deal with every person explaining to them the same thing that makes you weak.
As you know, every person
has some talent and it needs to be brought out in some of the other forms. In
such situations it is always better that you start realizing your hobby, things
you love to do, and engage yourself in some or the other way. Nevertheless, it will take time
at the start but gradually you will succeed in coming out from the failures and
setbacks with constant inspiration coming from within you.
For example, Some of you may like
playing a particular sport, some of you may like reading books, some of you may
like writing or reading articles, while some of you may love farming, some may
like doing adventures, trekking, few make like painting, art, or drawing. Consequently, pursue your hobby and distract yourself in the initial days.
3.Keep in touch with those friends who care for you and inspire you
As we know friends are very
important in everyone's life. Friends are there for you at every walk of your
life. Friends can be in the form of your relatives or true colleagues, college
mates, school friends. Friends play a vital role in helping you to come out of the shocks and make you laugh, share your feelings, give proper advice, or even
crack jokes.
For example, I have a great friend
circle with which I can share everything. It may be my happiness, my sorrows,
failures, or even setbacks I can share all my feelings with them. These friends
are your second family. So if you are going through a very bad phase in life,
like you are not able to crack the exam or maybe you have lost a relationship
or maybe you have lost your loved ones or financial crisis or job loss, friends
will always stand for you. So be sure to have a good friend circle that can
come to rescue you anytime and anywhere.
4.Accept new challenges in life
Setbacks or failures give you a lot
of pain but you must focus on the future life. If you
keep thinking of your failure you would never be capable of accepting the new
challenges in life. You need to be bold and courageous to accept each challenge
as an opportunity. It is for sure you would emerge out as a very strong
personality once you overcome one failure or setback.
So keep backing yourself and one
day you would emerge victoriously. Keep one thing in mind never ignore your self-health
and hygiene because it is crucial for your key to your success.
5.Take your own time as few setbacks take time to heal
I understand it requires time to
heal all the things that you went through in the past. I also can understand it is
difficult to come out of such a situation, but your determination and persistence
can surely help you overcome all failures and setbacks.
Always try to remember that you are
there for your parents. You are the one who is going to fulfill all their dreams.
So must understand the happiness of your parents lie in
your happiness and it is your prime duty to keep them happy whatever may be the
circumstances.
So one failure or setback in life should not break you, it should give you more energy and courage to explore more opportunities and do better next time.
CONCLUSION:
We have only one life. Don’t give
up. Live it to the fullest otherwise, you will regret your whole life. There is
nothing under the sun that you can’t do or achieve. It is hard to come out
of setbacks or failures, but not at all impossible.
People have to take their own time and patience is key to overcome all roadblocks. One bad incidence, the phase doesn’t reflect you are bad or not capable. Have faith in yourself as one day you will shine as bright as Star with all courage you showed in tough times.
8 Comments
Very helpful and nicely written. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThank you Sam
DeleteAgain to the point! Perfect!
ReplyDeleteThank you Tejas😊
DeleteSimply amazing!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Pooja😊
DeleteSome Great pointers here to recover from hard situations in life.Thanks for sharing them.
ReplyDeleteHey thank you so much. Your comments motivate to write more 🙂
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